Love or Money
There is a picture that we circulated through the office, that gave us all a chuckle. It was a big guy(maybe topping 4 Bills) in his bathing suit. He was walking hand in hand with a runway model type. She was in an itty bitty, well, you get the picture. The caption of the photo was, "It must be a rich guy".
I remember one literature assignment, in school, that required me to read O Henry's short story "Gift of the Magi". It was about a poor couple that was about to celebrate their wedding anniversary. The husband wanted to buy expensive combs, to give to his wife, so she could comb her long beautiful hair. His only worthwhile possession was his treasured gold watch. He sold it and bought the combs.
His wife had no possessions but her beautiful, long flowing hair. She cut it off, to the detriment of her appearance, and sold it, so she could buy a gold chain for her husband's greatest treasure, his gold watch. They were both startled when they exchanged gifts, but they were also both keenly aware of each others sacrifice. It was a story of love.
A controverisal topic in the news and now faced by every politician running for office is whether they support gay marriage. Currently, same sex marriage is legal in six states. In 1996, the Federal government enacted a law called the federal Defense of Marriage Act. The law denies federal recognition of same sex marriages and grants the rights to states, to also refuse to recognize same sex marriages, that were legally performed and recognized in other states.
Today's NY Times is reporting that the Massachusetts Attorney General has filed suit against the Federal Government to overturn the portion of this Federal law, which denies federal benefits to partners, in same sex marriages. Nothing in the suit relates to trying to overturn the recognition of same sex marriages in the other 44 state, or to mandate such recognition through this federal law.
Most of the rhetoric about same sex marriages relates to a person's right to marry the person that they choose. That such marriage should be based on love. No mention is ever made of any other side issue regarding the recognition of same sex marriages.
This lawsuit gives us a view into the strategy behind the proponents of same sex marriage. This is no "Gift of the Magi" story. What such proponents want, is the ability to reach into the social security system, medicare and any other federal benefits. As this lawsuit indicates, it's really about the money.
One final thought. If the Attorney General is successful, then such inclusion, by same sex partners will now be mathematically part of the social security system and when it will run out of money. It's not just an issue, for politicians, that relates to constitutionality or morality; Another consideration in the passage of laws that recognize same sex marriages, must also include an eye toward the economics of such passage.